Catch 22 in server transfers?

I just had a minor brainmelt during the chartransfer to a higher pop server..,

I Went to the transfer page, selected my toons to get them all to same server.
Clicked the transfer, confirmed..

After that I noticed that you was not able to transfer all to same server without first deleting one ( wierd imo )..

As it is now I cant find any way to abort the transfers, deleting a toon on the destination server will literaly take weeks for it to be done..

Big question now is am totally goofed up or is it a way to either abort the transfers or get a toon "speed deleted" on the target server?

Happy for an answer..